Mental Disability vs Physical Disability

raw thoughts on this topic. feeling slightly better after almost-breakdowns today. hoping for a better tomorrow.


i loved writing. not just text producing, but actual writing by hand. there’s just something very soothing about transferring ink from pen and graphite from pencil to paper (i prefer the latter). i don’t have the best penmanship, there’s nothing unique about it other than it being very tiny at times; at least i don’t write cursive, but that’s for another day. anyway, that’s why i like to write cards; i really like practising the craft.

i am right-handed and i broke my right arm. the hand has been immobile since because of the splint. i am currently physically-disabled. so i have to learn to use my left hand in activities like brushing my teeth, using chopsticks, and writing. i’ve been practicing to write since day 2 and maybe i’ve made good progress cos people said things like “wow you write real good, it’s legible”; i think they’re too kind. i started out optimistic because this is an opportunity to train to be ambidextrous. but it didn’t escalate that quickly.

i stopped playing badminton intensively after my favourite player retired early because her knee ligament was torn and she could not regain her level of play. now i know what it’s like to have a torn knee ligament: it’s hard to straighten the leg and i couldn’t bend the leg completely. i go out with a crutch. i get offered seats. passersby give me pitiful glances.


i also suffer now and then from panic attacks and have experienced what it feels like to be depressed and i had mild suicidal thoughts before. ya, deep down i’m kinda screwed up. i know exactly when did i fall into this dark hole and though i know what’s it like outside the hole and how to crawl out of it, i’m still stuck inside. it’s worse now cos the stronger half of my limbs aren’t functioning. i guess i’ll stay here for a little while longer.

back to the question i posed on Instagram:

not surprisingly, most people think that a mental disability sucks more than a physical one. i would think so too, if i weren’t so handicapped now. as someone who has been affected in both ways to the point where i ceased to function as a normal human being, i think i am quite qualified to answer this.

i’ve been pondering upon this for a few weeks now. to me the question boiled down to something like:

what is worse? theoretically being able to do something but for some reason not do it or being theoretically unable to do something and thus not do it?

gotta thank French for this epiphany; merci for the existence of pouvoir and savoir.

i decided that it’s worse to be unable to do things because you simply cannot.


do you know how depressing it is:

to concentrate real hard on writing and it still happens slowly and comes out ugly?

to loathe writing when a long sentence is encountered? this is an understatement because after 3 weeks, i am officially avoiding writing. because i’m that incompetent.

to look at the mess at home and not being able to tidy it up as i wanted to?

to require assistance in basic tasks? i’m a burden to the people around me.

to despise walking?

to not be able to shower properly? i’m a dirtbag.

to realise that, without help, i couldn’t survive? what is self-sufficiency; seems like a million light years away.


however i must say that it’s definitely easier to recover from physical illnesses because of medical advances and people can actually help with it (surgeries, care, etc). although there are also drugs for mental illnesses (i’m never administered any btw), in the end the patient is the only one who could help themselves, no external interference will be extremely helpful.

take care, everybody. life is too short to be disabled.

Saturday. Puchong. Dark.

an exhausting week has passed

READ

my obsession with rhythmic gymnastics is full blown again. crushed that the World Championships wouldn’t be broadcasted live on TV but thankfully there are other ways to follow the championships

ahhhh so hanja in Korean is just like kanji in Japanese

an interactive article about the thin border that divides North Korea and South Korea. i have a better understanding of the geography too

the North Korean Standard Language. notice how both countries decided to call that language. i find it funny 

“Instanovels” sounds genius

about assholes. wow. just wow.

how often you should poop 

 

WATCHED

a girl who claimed that a switch of personality took place when this was taken

Anna Kendrick on the Ellen Show again

Wednesday.

woke up with allergies. i seem to have a lot of problems now

SKIMMED

history websites. weird that im interested in history now

READ

the mystery of a stolen painting that was found after the suspects have died

wow. so people don’t just use tax haven countries to avoid legal financial responsibilities but also environmental responsibilities. this is bad

“Contrary to the national football team, the German economy did not have a rude awakening at the start of the summer,” AND THEY SAY GERMANS HAVE NO HUMOUR. anyway i don’t understand 80% of the article because im economics-illiterate 

ahahahahaha wtf Paris

“Germans care about the environment about as much as their beer” so they’re running out of beer bottles

the physical and the mental are connected

Wednesday. Cloudy.

i woke up with a painful throat. i no longer understand anything

READ

about chronic coughs. duh.

symptoms of bronchitis. i most probably don’t have it

origins of burgers. surprised that it’s more German than American [in German]

origins of sandwiches because i was trying to prove a point. sandwiches are named after a Lord Sandwich

Anne Boleyne. a former English queen

i secretly (not-so-secret now) loath Apple too though i own an iPhone and a Macbook Air

another logic puzzle called Blue Eyes

and this is the solution to it. i didn’t work it out cos im stupid and impatient but the solution makes perfect sense to me

about a couple who sold their son to pedophiles in Germany. i’ve been to this particular tiny town and it’s crazy to think that someone was under such abuse right there

Friday, Hangzhou, China

wait what this article claims that North Korea has been robbing banks. wow.

this article claims that people’s ego get bigger after medication and yoga so it defeats the purpose. but cmon. wtf really. isn’t it normal for people to feel good about themselves after doing something like that? im sure they would get the same results when tested with people who just finished reading some self-help books. lol world

the intern sexting with her boss. oh wowwwwwwwwwwwwwww so what?

WOW NORTH KOREA IS AT ANOTHER LEVEL OF PARANOIA BUT COOL

whatever it is, just surround yourself with good people and not toxic people. damn pointless

the weird Russian mindset. sounds like Malaysians who didn’t do anything to the government who was taking a lot of things from us. what could we do anyway??